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Why Your Kids Need Less Toys!

July 29

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Your kids need less toys. They don’t need an entire toy store in their home. There, I said it.

I grew up in a family that didn’t have much. When I became a parent, my kids were not going to go without. Money wasn’t an issue, and if they “needed” it, I would buy it.

Guess what? Their rooms were a mess and they were turning into spoiled children.

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Is it wrong to want my kids to have less?

Taking away the excess toys seems like an impossible ideal. I get it. I had the same thoughts.

After practicing a few of the concepts of living with less with my kids, I was surprised by my kids’ reactions and the benefits.

Never in a million years would I have thought them having fewer toys would have such huge benefits.

My kids did not initially embrace getting rid of some of their toys. They kind of freaked out the first time I cleared out some items from the house.

I talked to them about how I was trying to simplify things in my life, and about how we really wanted to start living with less. While reluctant in the beginning, my kids knew I was not going to back down.

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Prepare your kids for a life with less toys

Living with less doesn’t happen overnight, just like the accumulation of stuff you have in your home didn’t happen overnight. It took years.

There is a reason you are wanting to practice having less, and you need to share it with your kids.

For me, it was simply stating, “Mommy is tired of cleaning up all the time. We are lucky to have so much stuff, and it is time to share it with people who can’t have these kinds of things.”

That’s just it. Mama was tired of cleaning up all the time. The clutter never seemed to stop, and more and more toys were entering the home on a regular basis.

My kids needed less toys so mama wouldn’t go broke or crazy!

Fewer Toys Can Benefit Your Kids | Minimalism with Kids

Here are the reasons why your kids need less toys:

Increased creativity

When your kids have less toys stuffed into every corner of their room, they are forced to use their imaginations.

Kids are incredible in how they can use their imaginations, and so many of today’s technological toys almost do the playing for our kids.

I love watching my kids pick up MagnaTiles and turn them into a make-believe pizza shop and bakery, serving us all their homemade delights.

I also love to watch them pick up a simple cape and go from being a super-hero to a princess, all within a ten-minute span.

It is amazing to see what their little brains come up within their play, all because they have toys that spark imaginative play.

Toy clean-up gets easier

When your kids have less toys, the clean-up in their rooms and in their playroom gets so much easier.

Everything has a designated place, which makes it easier to put things away. Although kids will still be kids and will probably fight back regarding picking up, they will no longer feel overwhelmed by the sheer number of toys to clean-up.

My kids used to have meltdowns when I asked them to clean their rooms. Now that they have less toys, even though they push back sometimes, the meltdowns have stopped.

Give your kids baskets, toy boxes and other easy toy storage solutions to make picking up toys a breeze.

Fewer toys and toy storage

Increased gratitude

When kids don’t get a new toy with every visit to Target (true story, I know people who do this), then they start to really appreciate the toys they own.

Giving your kids the things they need is important. You do not have to give your kids everything they desire.

If you give your kids everything they desire, you are not teaching them to appreciate and value what they have already.

I admittedly used to buy my kids way more than they needed. It was so easy because we could afford it, so why not buy it? I was lucky to be able to provide for my kids, so I thought.

The thing is, they were turning into spoiled kids who did not always appreciate what they were given.

To watch them open Christmas presents or birthday presents and just throw them aside to move on to the next one was almost embarrassing.

After practicing living with less with kids and adopting a life with less toys, they now show way more gratitude when they receive something new.

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More time outside

When your kids have less toys, it is like the house pushes them outside to play.

Nature is our playground, and kids know how to use it to the wildest depths of their imaginations. A stick becomes a sword. Chalk on the sidewalk turning into a game involving all the neighborhood kids, and a large rock becomes a castle.

Kids who go outside end up running and exercising more, teaching them healthy habits that grow into adulthood.

When your kids play outside more, it also forces the grown-ups outside more often. Seeing your kids laugh and play outside brings back memories before smartphones and other electronic toys existed.

It encourages you, as the adult, to remember the fondness of bike riding and hopscotch. Go outside and play with your kids! You won’t regret the feeling or memories being made!

Two girls playing hopscotch

More experiences

When you embrace living with less with kids and have less toys, you get to teach them early on that experiences are more important than having a room bursting at the seams with toys.

Talk to your kids about living with less. Point out the benefits when you are experiencing them.

Instead of giving toys as gifts, consider other minimalist gift ideas for kids, such as a visit to a museum.

One thing we do is offer the kids a weekend trip instead of a large birthday party. My kids love to take trips, and I was once pleasantly surprised when one gave up a large party to take a weekend trip to a waterpark.

Kids learn quickly that memories are more enjoyable than toys.

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More giving

When you declutter your kid’s room, talk about how you will be giving many of the items away to other kids in need.

My kids initially fought back when I talked about decluttering their rooms. Once we started discussing other kids who did not have any toys, they wanted to be more generous, and they wanted to give away the toys they no longer needed.

Recently, my youngest walked up to me and said, “Mommy, these cars are for babies. Let’s give them away to a little kid.”

Kids have the sweetest hearts. Teach them the benefits of giving rather than excess early on in life, and maybe they can avoid the dangers of excess spending as adults.

A Happy Mom

When kids have fewer toys, mama has less to clean up.  When mama has less to clean up, she is happier. 

A happy mom is more likely to sit down and play with her kids because she now has the time and patience and is not worried about all the future clean-up battles.

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There are benefits to kids having fewer toys.

Less really is more

Kids today really do need less toys. Living with less with kids can have tremendous benefits for a child.

Not having everything they ever wanted can teach kids skills they will carry into adulthood, hopefully before they are obsessed with our culture of excess and consumerism.

Kids are adaptable, and they are sponges. Don’t be afraid to try something new. I promise they won’t hate you. One day they may thank you when they realize living with less stuff can make you happier.

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  1. Bethany @ Happily Loco

    July 30 at 11:03 am

    I found that too many toys were just overwhelming for my daughter. They end up spread out all over her room, in a cluttered mess. She does a lot better with less.

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  2. firmhappymom

    July 31 at 7:00 am

    I love this! I’m making a goal to keep it simple! Even when it’s their birthday, toys aren’t necessarily the best present. Tickets to museums or other activities are just as fun!

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